Monday, March 3, 2014

Wedding oh Wedding

Assalamualaikum.

Better weather than yesterday. Although it was raining but the climate during the night, no one would ever wanted for. However, i could see the possibility of having perfect night today. :)

Merepek skjp pasal weather. Since open burning and some sorts of hutan terbakar due to global warming, we seem to live in India. hahaha. i recently had a chat with Indian friend, and he said he is use to this climate condition and never complain of the temperature rising since India is higher than Malaysia temperature where the was one time where the temperature raised up to 48 degree C. So we should be lucky though.

:)

Macam terfikir nak rambling. tpi dalam lingkungan topic after marriage. yes.

just to note down something where i realize yang.. 

1. after marriage, whatever we said about our spouse, actually reflects ourselves. hahaha. contohnya kalau ade orang tanye "weh mane laki kau tak datang masjid semalam?". takkan kau nak jawap "laki aku malas nak pegi" padehal mmg kau dh encourage laki kau pegi masjid untuk kenal kariah. instead of jawap mcm tu, kne cepat2 bagi jawapan "Tak sempat semalam, inshaAllah esok ade lah subuh tu.." 
pheww....

2. lepas kawin kene banyak fikir sebelum say someting. hahaha a bit challenging for me. sebab i use to speak out any idea and my crazy opinion to people close to me, jadi bile die dh jadi husband lagi haruslah dengar semua benda i rase. tapi nope, thats not a good way actually. ahahaha. sbb kadang-kdang it will be inconsiderate to make others feel uneasy even its a good advice. contohnye kena la fikir masa yang sesuai dan cara penyampaian yang paling soft kita rase boleh. ataupun tunjukkan dengan example.. :)

3. makin bertambah keja. extra workloads i tell you. habis keje balik fikir nak prepare ape for dinner. and tak sempat mandi tukar baju dh prepare dkt dpur. so that dinner can be served before maghrib. bila dah makan okay then boleh bersiap mandi and semayang pulak. malam plak mase utk prepare utk esok pagi, kemaskan beg and baju husband. baju smua dh gosok mase weekend jadi tak payah pening nak gosok lagi. tinggal esok bangun awal prepare utk masak so that lunch boleh makan tak payah beli. this planning so much helps us to save our budget. 


so itu sempat 3 benda yang saya sedar. hopefully saya dikurniakan kesabaran dan kekuatan yang tinggi sebab memerlukan ketahan fizikal dan rohani supaya sentiasa optimum and happy dalam setiap kerja yang saya lakukan sebagai isteri. heeeee. :)

itu je. 


till the next entry,


Assalamualaikum.

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